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Chapter 221 The Reported Teacher 4

You can’t hit them, you can’t scold them, you can’t scold them. Children are protected like canaries, they can’t do anything, but they dare not let go.

I wish I could help him put on clothes, feed him, and help him study.

"Don't worry, we are far away from the big city. The disturbance over there will not affect us now. Our principal is also a good person and can distinguish right from wrong."

Wang Hong was a little worried, but when he saw that Liang Zhimeng didn't want to talk about it, he let it go.

The next day, when Xin Jin woke up, she found Liang Zhimeng cooking, and Wang Hong was helping her correct her homework, which he had become accustomed to.

Whenever Wang Hong is free, he will help Liang Zhimeng correct her homework and test papers.

After breakfast, Wang Xingchen suddenly asked, "Dad, why don't you sign me up for a cram school?"

"what do you want to learn?"

"My deskmate said that his mother often told him not to let her child lose at the starting line. So she enrolled him in a cram school.

There is another girl in my class who is not good at studying. She has signed up for two cram schools. One is from Sunday to Friday night, and the content is all taught by the teacher in the textbook. The other is a dance class on weekends, and I plan to let her take the art exam in the future. My classmate doesn't like it. It's painful every time she dances, and she dances very badly. The dance teacher often scolds her.

Some people in the class even signed up for calligraphy classes, but the most popular classes were cram schools, so I was wondering if I should sign up for that, too.”

Before Wang Hong could speak, Liang Zhimeng spoke first, "I remember your deskmate was quite smart. He always scored above 90 points in every exam, right?"

Wang Xingchen nodded, leaving Liang Zhimeng confused.

You said that if you don’t understand in class, you can just take extra classes. But if you score above 90 in every subject, you are considered a top student. Why do you still need extra classes?

"Student Wang Xingchen, I reject your idea. First of all, there are several mistakes in your answer.

First: Don’t let your children lose at the starting line. This does not refer to the children, but to the parents, and what kind of living environment they can provide for the children.

This is almost destined when a child is born. For example, children in the capital, children from wealthy families are destined to have many paths to choose from. Maybe the end of an ordinary person's life struggle is the starting point for them.

So, don’t let your children lose at the starting line. This refers to the parents, not the children.

Second: I don't plan to enroll you in a cram school. I am very satisfied with your current academic performance, study attitude, habits, etc. The knowledge from elementary school to junior high school is very simple. At this stage, what you need to do is not to get the first place in the exams, but to develop habits.

Now, you will take the initiative to do your homework, and you will complete the homework assigned by the teacher every day. Your grades are average now, but I am very satisfied. Because you will take the initiative to help your mother with work, and you will play with your mobile phone, but you will control yourself, play for a while, and not indulge in it, etc. You are better than many students now, not because of your studies.

It is your current upbringing and your habits that make me very satisfied. I am proud to have a child like you.

Third: If you are interested in something other than studying, I can send you to interest classes. But you signed up just for the sake of signing up, and I refuse to waste the money. I might as well buy delicious food for my family. "

Wang Xingchen listened carefully, "Dad, I understand. If I like it, I will tell you."

Wang Hong nodded with satisfaction, saying that this boy is teachable.

"Besides," Liang Zhimeng touched Wang Xingchen's head, "your life is your own, there is no need to compare with others. Everyone has their own areas of expertise or weaknesses. The important thing is to find something you love and stick to it."

Wang Xingchen nodded thoughtfully, "I understand, Mom."

He also discovered that he had gone astray, that everyone is unique and there is no need to compare themselves with others.

Wang Hong was very satisfied. He looked at Xin Jin and said in a much better tone than Wang Xingchen, "Wan Xia, are you interested?"

Xinjin shook her head. She knew a lot of them and she was afraid that if she took them out, it would scare people to death.

In the following days, Wang Xingchen noticed the differences between himself and other classmates.

The first thing is the grades. My deskmate got full marks in math last time and 99.5 this time, but he looked worried.

Question: His mother is not satisfied and would say that he was careless. He could have gotten full marks, so why did he only get 99.5 points?

Wang Xingchen took a look and deducted some points because the unit was not written.

But even if it's only 99.5 points, he's still number one in the class. Why should his mother be angry?

Looking at my grades, 80 in math, which is only half of what I got, I don’t feel much.

Looking at the people around me, some are happy because their grades have improved, while others are worried because their grades have declined.

"Xingchen, your grades are so bad, you will definitely be scolded by your mother when you go back."

Wang Xingchen shook his head and said, "My parents never criticize me for my grades." They only criticize him for his manners.

For example, when he goes outside, he does not put away his own food, interrupts adults when they are talking, etc.

"I'm so envious of you. No one said anything even though you did so badly on the test. If I did so badly on the test, my mom would definitely nag me every day."

Wang Xingchen looked at the test paper with 80 points. Was it bad? He was very satisfied.

I always feel that I am a little different from the people around me, but I can't tell exactly where the difference is. Never mind.

"Let's go play football in the PE class later."

"No, I still have to study. I did so badly on the exam this time. Oh... I won't say anymore. I'm tired." Seeing Wang Xingchen running out happily, his desk mate was envious. When will he be so happy?

Thinking that the get out of class was over and he still had to go to cram school, he lowered his head another inch.

Wang Xingchen ran freely on the playground, feeling free and happy, while his deskmate had no choice but to go to cram school.

The difference between their personalities became increasingly apparent.

Wang Xingchen is confident and cheerful, but his deskmate always has a sad aura and looks weird.

Wang Xingchen didn’t understand when he was a child, but when he grew up, he realized that compared to learning, a person’s character and healthy personality are very important.

He is grateful to his parents for their upbringing, which enabled him to have a happy and fulfilling childhood.

Meanwhile, Xinjin was browsing videos and happened to see a video posted by a parent. The original words were:

Title: It’s so hard to be a parent nowadays!

My daughter talked back to the teacher in class and was physically punished by the teacher. I complained to the Education Bureau and the teacher was punished and demoted.

After this incident, the teacher never cared about my daughter again, and she no longer had the care and patience she had before.

After that, my daughter was very depressed at school and often told me that the teacher didn't like her anymore. She felt very lonely at school, and I felt bad. After all, I just wanted the teacher to know that corporal punishment was wrong.

I didn't know this situation would turn out. When communicating with my daughter, I realized that it wasn't her problem. Don't worry too much about the teacher's attitude. Study hard and let the teacher see that you are a capable person.

However, my daughter still didn’t know how to face the teacher.

Finally, I would like to ask everyone, what is the best thing for parents to do when teachers physically punish children?

After watching it, Xinjin felt that the video was particularly contradictory. "Mom, please take a look at this video."

Wang Hong was also there, and after the two of them finished watching, Xin Jin couldn't see Wang Hong's expression. However, Liang Zhimeng's expression was indeed very ugly.

Wang Hong spoke first, "This video is instructive. According to what this parent said, the problem lies with the teacher, but she didn't make it clear what the punishment was.

Therefore, I conclude that there is a lot of water in this "corporal punishment". Being forced to stand in the corner, copy textbooks, or be on duty can barely be considered corporal punishment.

It is normal for children who do not listen in class and talk back to the teacher to be punished by standing.

So I think it was just a normal punishment by the teacher for a disobedient child. But this video is too suggestive, wanting everyone to stand in her perspective and discuss the matter like her, saying that it was the teacher who did something wrong, and she was not wrong.

Wang Hong read the comments and said, "Fortunately, everyone has a clear vision and no one abused the teacher because of this video. Otherwise, the teacher would have been cyberbullied based on this video."

Liang Zhimeng couldn't stand it. She usually didn't curse, but this was an exception. As a teacher, she understood the teacher's behavior. If someone talked back to the teacher in class and the teacher let him go, and the students behind him followed suit, the teacher would lose her authority and no students would listen to her class.

In particular, she reported the teacher and still wanted the teacher to continue paying attention to her daughter. She is so shameless.

"This parent is crazy. She reported the teacher and still wants the teacher to treat her child well? She is brainless. In her daughter's case, the outcome was doomed the moment she reported it. Not only this teacher, but other teachers are afraid to intervene."

Check out the comments below:

~~It only mentioned corporal punishment, but didn't say anything specific. It's very likely that it was within a reasonable range and not excessive. And the first reaction was not to communicate with the teacher, but to complain directly. No teacher would like this kind of parents.

~~It's not the parents who have a hard time, it's the teachers who have a hard time! You've ruined their jobs, and you still want them to care about your children?

~~Usually, you take it for granted that they care about you, but you find it unacceptable that you are punished by standing in the corner. You want to destroy someone's job. Who dares to mess with you, this parent?

~~No wonder my daughter dares to talk back, she learned it from her parents.

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Liang Zhimeng shook her head. "Some people are willing to do anything to gain traffic. Such misleading videos can easily spark debate among netizens and have a negative impact on the parties involved."

Wang Hong also agreed, "Yes, the information on the Internet is complicated and we must learn to distinguish the true from the false and not blindly believe it."

Xin Jin said thoughtfully, "I have to be careful in the future and not be misled by such false information."

Liang Zhimeng touched her head and said, "Well, you are right to think so. However, we cannot completely deny the role of the Internet. It still brings us a lot of convenience and fun. The key is to use it correctly."

"Then mom, you are also a teacher, you..."

"Yes, Mom, why don't you be less involved in the future? Don't punish those disobedient students too much. I'm afraid their parents will report you." Wang Xingchen also spoke up.